Questions

How can you tell between a lie & the truth? How can you tell if the person you cared about & been with for a long time is lying to you? Why evade a question when you can just honestly answer to get it over with? Why start a gossip & you can't own it up when faced to face with the gossip victim? When confronted, why not take the responsibility if it's yours?

These are questions bombarding my mind right now. Do you believe in insulting someone else's intellect when lying to them? I do. It's kinda hard to accept that you're being lied to by someone you have grown to trust, love, & care. Do you think a 4-year friendship/relationship is enough to just let a lie pass by? I think once or twice is enough.

I figured I think I am better off alone than be surrounded by people who actually stabs me at the back? Why give genuine friendship when you end up being smothered by malicious stories that you don't even know about?

I am saddened by the situation I am in. Probably just a bit different, but all the same feeling. Brokenhearted? Probably. Disappointed? YES. And that's a big yes. Betrayed? Maybe.

So, again, I question how do you mend a broken heart? How do you build trust if one had lost it? How can a person change for the better if he cannot let go of the past? What does it take for a person to change for the betterment of his future? How can one let go of his vices? How can one change his paradigm? Is there a certain standard, or system, or a step-by-step process to change one's self? Maybe not totally changing the whole you, but reassessing the YOU inside?

How many people have reached this kind of maturity & to how many people had they shared this experience? How many promises should be broken so one person can learn?

I still do not understand the workings of the heart, & the mind. I still cannot reason why God has let these things happen. I still cannot solve the mystery behind life. Why do I feel alone? So empty, yet I try to so hard to fill the void in my heart with people. People who doesn't even care if you exist. People who doesn't even care if you are hurt or not. People who lie because they want to lie. People who lie because they need to lie. People who breaks the friendship I thought there was. I surround myself with material things. But they are just material things that we cannot bring in to the next life.

Do I pray? Yes, I do. But it isn't enough, maybe. I have to ask myself several times what do I see in my faith why I still hold on to it. Why I still hold on to God. The God that I cannot see or feel physically. Is this faith? Probably. I know God is out there somewhere. Believe me, I am no Aethist. I will defend God & his Words no matter what. There are just times that I ask Him. For whatever's going on & why I am experiencing it.

I hope that in time, things will go right again. They say life is not a fairytale. I say, it can be, if we are only willing to take on each other's crosses & give way to each other as much as we can. That way, we take advantage of each other in a good way.

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Scammers targeting the lonely and vulnerable through Dating Sites

Last night I watched a show on SBS (Australia) relating to the increase of Scammers using Dating Sites to lure the lonely and vulnerable into handing over Hundreds of Thousands of Dollars. I must say, that my heart went out to those who had been scammed, one gentleman who had recently lost his wife had even mortgaged his house!!

This is indeed a worry and one that definitely needs to be addressed, they use fake files using people who are shall we say 'Attractive to look at'!!!! They are either in the Military, Business Executives, Divorced or Widowed, claim to have no children and travel a lot. They are extremely clever and obviously work in teams.
Using dummy documents and Government Certificates that look legit, it is a Multi Billion Dollar business world wide.

Our Authorities here are doing their best to crack down on these cruel heartless monsters (as that's what they are)! In an effort to save those from being the next victims. But they can only do so much, it is also up to the various Dating Sites to put in stricter protocol, as well as the individuals using the site.

When someone starts asking for money that in itself, should be a red flag, regardless of what they say and especially if Western Union is their preferred method.   Though that doesn't mean to say the the major banks haven't been used also!

At BBeez40lpus.net and BBeez40plus.com.au we have, to the best of our ability put in place methods to wean out those who are undesirable. Baring in mind that BBeez40plus isn't a dating site as such

A description of what we are all about it written below please take the time to read it and if you feel that this is something that you are looking for then please sign up, being a new site we'd love to help you on your journey of discovery, seeking out people of like kind

In love and light always

Bettyblue

BBeez 40plus a companionship site you can trust

This site is specifically for those who are genuinely seeking people of
like kind for companionship/friendship
or a little Romance but without the commitment

The Administrator of Bbeez40plus doesn't want the site to be seen as a dating site, thereby giving false expectations to those yearning for a committed relationship

This idea came to fruition a while ago, realising that NOT everybody is keen to venture down that path and for a number of reasons.

1.They're tired of all the hype and fake files that come with a lot of dating sites.
2.They're happy with their current lifestyle & are set in their ways
3.They're just happy to socialise on a very casual level
4.They may be looking for TRUE meaningful PLATONIC friendships
5.They're looking for friendships which may lead to benefits with strict mutual guidelines

Hence the idea with BBeez40plus is to give those who are GENUINE and
SINCERE an opportunity to meet people of like kind with similar interests to themselves either singularly or in a group environment.

Knowing that there are many BBeez (Baby Boomer's) & those over 40 who were extremely creative, fun loving and shall we say Adventurous in their day!!
It's purely to give members a chance to communicate and express freely their thoughts and views.
The Administrator wants to highlight the importance of being open and honest at the start, so as to eliminate any misunderstandings as to the true nature of the site. That's not to say that over time, some may find that they are ready, to take it to the next level, if this does occur then you have our blessings..:-)

As membership increases numerous functions, dinners, social events will be organised throughout the year, so all can meet in a safe environment and with the filtering system, we will to the best of our ability eliminate any undesirables

So if you believe in the BBeez vision then become a member and help spread the light

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