Halloween - Magic

As we approach Halloween remember to give thanks to Mother Earth and all her wondrous glories for without her we cannot survive.

Too often we take her for granted, she needs to be loved and nurtured so our harvests may be abundant providing food for all.

For if we don't then she we have no other alternative but to retaliate.

So remember when you are out celebrating with family and friends to give a little thought for the Great Mother Earth

Peace, Love and Light Always

Bettyblue :-)

Questions

How can you tell between a lie & the truth? How can you tell if the person you cared about & been with for a long time is lying to you? Why evade a question when you can just honestly answer to get it over with? Why start a gossip & you can't own it up when faced to face with the gossip victim? When confronted, why not take the responsibility if it's yours?

These are questions bombarding my mind right now. Do you believe in insulting someone else's intellect when lying to them? I do. It's kinda hard to accept that you're being lied to by someone you have grown to trust, love, & care. Do you think a 4-year friendship/relationship is enough to just let a lie pass by? I think once or twice is enough.

I figured I think I am better off alone than be surrounded by people who actually stabs me at the back? Why give genuine friendship when you end up being smothered by malicious stories that you don't even know about?

I am saddened by the situation I am in. Probably just a bit different, but all the same feeling. Brokenhearted? Probably. Disappointed? YES. And that's a big yes. Betrayed? Maybe.

So, again, I question how do you mend a broken heart? How do you build trust if one had lost it? How can a person change for the better if he cannot let go of the past? What does it take for a person to change for the betterment of his future? How can one let go of his vices? How can one change his paradigm? Is there a certain standard, or system, or a step-by-step process to change one's self? Maybe not totally changing the whole you, but reassessing the YOU inside?

How many people have reached this kind of maturity & to how many people had they shared this experience? How many promises should be broken so one person can learn?

I still do not understand the workings of the heart, & the mind. I still cannot reason why God has let these things happen. I still cannot solve the mystery behind life. Why do I feel alone? So empty, yet I try to so hard to fill the void in my heart with people. People who doesn't even care if you exist. People who doesn't even care if you are hurt or not. People who lie because they want to lie. People who lie because they need to lie. People who breaks the friendship I thought there was. I surround myself with material things. But they are just material things that we cannot bring in to the next life.

Do I pray? Yes, I do. But it isn't enough, maybe. I have to ask myself several times what do I see in my faith why I still hold on to it. Why I still hold on to God. The God that I cannot see or feel physically. Is this faith? Probably. I know God is out there somewhere. Believe me, I am no Aethist. I will defend God & his Words no matter what. There are just times that I ask Him. For whatever's going on & why I am experiencing it.

I hope that in time, things will go right again. They say life is not a fairytale. I say, it can be, if we are only willing to take on each other's crosses & give way to each other as much as we can. That way, we take advantage of each other in a good way.

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Does True Love Really Wait?

There are a lot of arguments everywhere about what true love is. We have grown in a world where sex and love are mixed in together that sometimes they really couldn’t distinguish if it was really love. Blessed are those who stayed in love even after having sex before marriage, and getting married afterwards.

What are you thoughts? Read on by clicking below. 

Does True Love Really Wait?

Friends ‘R Us

Aside from our own family, we also have our friends to share our life with. They know who our first boyfriend was, our heartaches, our craziness, the stupid stuff we did, laugh trips, food trips, and whatever is going on with your life right now, they are one of the people you can trust with your secrets.

Can  you still remember how you met your best friend?

How about your childhood friends?

Read all about it and share your story, too! Friends 'R Us

"As we grow up, we realize it is less important to have lots of friends, and more important to have real ones."

Is It Still You?

In a relationship, we find that we aren't happy anymore and there are a couple of reasons why. Sometimes, we confuse ourselves on why we stay in a relationship. You might want to assess yourself if you’re still the same person before you met this person in your life, and after you have been together for how  many years now.

What were the questions that guided me to find out if I should stay or if I should let go?I have definitely opened my heart through this blog 

Is It Still You?

"Learn how to use your brain, but also to listen to your heart. Then choose the right one."

Bbeez40Plus: A New Beginning

Our Bbeez website has not been active for awhile. That's because we needed to do a complete overhaul to make it better for you. We apologize for not being able to reach out to you, guys, right away.

When we say complete overhaul, that means working out with a whole new different crew and contractors, and giving our website a makeover. We want to make this a success, and hopefully, within this year we can establish our name again.

We would like to thank those who have continued to support our vision, and continues to support us.
Meet new people, meet new friends within you circle. We are encouraging those in their 40s, 50s, & 60s to join us. It's be a lot of fun!

There's more to come, guys, and hope you'll be with us for the rest of our journey!

Feel free to visit and register at the new Bbeez40Plus!
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"BBeez40plus the Companionship site you can trust"

Tired of dating sites with fake profiles?
Seeking genuine friendship/Companionship?
Looking for a little Romance but without the commitment?
Seeking new friends to meet Socially?
Looking for sincere, genuine like minded people?

If you resonate and believe in the BBeez vision then become a member and help spread the light!

HOW TO MAKE NEW FRIENDSHIPS STRONGER & KEEP IT!

Get to know them at a more personal level. Nowadays, people rely on social sites to get to know a person. They see their status posted every day, pictures of what they do. Surprisingly, you’ll find out that they have more to give and share than what you see in Facebook, Google+, Instagram, Twitter, etc. You’ll find out what their dreams are, their plans, how they really feel, what is their stand on politics, sexuality, faith, and many others. 

Here are 5 simple steps that you can try:

1)      Eat out. There’s nothing like breaking the ice by eating out, and have a cup of coffee afterwards. Just by eating lets you know where they eat, what type of food they’d go for, if they’re picky about food. With this simple step, you already have a simple idea of the kind of person you’re getting to know.

2)      Do an activity together. Call them up, and ask if they want to go to the beach, paint, volunteer, go to the gym, the list is endless! You just have to be prepared for whatever answer they’re going to give you. By doing this, they might even suggest something out of the blue that you have tried before, and you’re in for a great experience!’

3)      Meet their family. You don’t really have to be upfront about it. Just by simply saying, “Hey, can I go over to your place? I’m bored.” Chances are, they’ll say yes. Not everyone in the family might be at home, but eventually you will meet them all and find out the reason why you’re friend loves this and that, or why she doesn’t want to do this. You’ll see another side of your friend that might interest you, and usually this gives you more reason to become their friend, and be there for them.

4)      Talk. Real friends talk over a lot of things. It can be anything, from the craziest ideas to the most serious type of conversation. When you eat out or talk, make it a point not to hold on to your phone, iPad, or what have you. You don’t want to miss out on what your friend is actually saying to you. For calls from your parents, or something important, of course you can excuse yourself for a while and answer your phone. You know what we mean right?

5)      Be yourself. In this age, we usually don’t reveal who we really are because we’re afraid that they might not like us, or they’d judge you. But hey, it’s worth it. At the end of the day, they’ll know that you’re being real, no pretensions, and they can trust you more than anybody else.

To meet new friends, just visit and register our website Bbeez40Plus

Scammers targeting the lonely and vulnerable through Dating Sites

Last night I watched a show on SBS (Australia) relating to the increase of Scammers using Dating Sites to lure the lonely and vulnerable into handing over Hundreds of Thousands of Dollars. I must say, that my heart went out to those who had been scammed, one gentleman who had recently lost his wife had even mortgaged his house!!

This is indeed a worry and one that definitely needs to be addressed, they use fake files using people who are shall we say 'Attractive to look at'!!!! They are either in the Military, Business Executives, Divorced or Widowed, claim to have no children and travel a lot. They are extremely clever and obviously work in teams.
Using dummy documents and Government Certificates that look legit, it is a Multi Billion Dollar business world wide.

Our Authorities here are doing their best to crack down on these cruel heartless monsters (as that's what they are)! In an effort to save those from being the next victims. But they can only do so much, it is also up to the various Dating Sites to put in stricter protocol, as well as the individuals using the site.

When someone starts asking for money that in itself, should be a red flag, regardless of what they say and especially if Western Union is their preferred method.   Though that doesn't mean to say the the major banks haven't been used also!

At BBeez40lpus.net and BBeez40plus.com.au we have, to the best of our ability put in place methods to wean out those who are undesirable. Baring in mind that BBeez40plus isn't a dating site as such

A description of what we are all about it written below please take the time to read it and if you feel that this is something that you are looking for then please sign up, being a new site we'd love to help you on your journey of discovery, seeking out people of like kind

In love and light always

Bettyblue

BBeez 40plus a companionship site you can trust

This site is specifically for those who are genuinely seeking people of
like kind for companionship/friendship
or a little Romance but without the commitment

The Administrator of Bbeez40plus doesn't want the site to be seen as a dating site, thereby giving false expectations to those yearning for a committed relationship

This idea came to fruition a while ago, realising that NOT everybody is keen to venture down that path and for a number of reasons.

1.They're tired of all the hype and fake files that come with a lot of dating sites.
2.They're happy with their current lifestyle & are set in their ways
3.They're just happy to socialise on a very casual level
4.They may be looking for TRUE meaningful PLATONIC friendships
5.They're looking for friendships which may lead to benefits with strict mutual guidelines

Hence the idea with BBeez40plus is to give those who are GENUINE and
SINCERE an opportunity to meet people of like kind with similar interests to themselves either singularly or in a group environment.

Knowing that there are many BBeez (Baby Boomer's) & those over 40 who were extremely creative, fun loving and shall we say Adventurous in their day!!
It's purely to give members a chance to communicate and express freely their thoughts and views.
The Administrator wants to highlight the importance of being open and honest at the start, so as to eliminate any misunderstandings as to the true nature of the site. That's not to say that over time, some may find that they are ready, to take it to the next level, if this does occur then you have our blessings..:-)

As membership increases numerous functions, dinners, social events will be organised throughout the year, so all can meet in a safe environment and with the filtering system, we will to the best of our ability eliminate any undesirables

So if you believe in the BBeez vision then become a member and help spread the light

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Do you love your Pet? Then this will Interest YOU

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If you're anything like me and you love your pets, you do your utmost to make sure that they have the best foods. With the cost of living rising it's getting harder to maintain that level of dedication. I came across this report the other day which I think you'll all find not only interesting but extremely helpful.
Please click the link and check it out for yourself. 

About to head out for their walk aren't they Cute

I was out the other day catching up with a friend for lunch and she informed me that she had just been made redundant. This blew me away as she'd been there for many years. During our rather despondent chat regarding what her next plan of action would be, a thought popped into my head.  'Start your own business, I said'   As we both came to the same conclusion, being in her late 40's the prospects of getting fulltime employment is rather slim.  Being a Animal lover like myself, it just made absolute sense. Pet Sitting!!

Now she's not only doing something she loves, she's also making a very good income, working the hours she wants, earning more than what she was being paid on a weekly basis!!! Can't ask for much more than that! So if you're an Animal Lover and are either bored with work or fed up with your current financial situation click on the link below. it could be the beginning of something fantastic.


How to make $250 a day Pet Sitting

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